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civilization
An organized culture encompassing many communities, often on the scale of a nation or a people; a stage or system of social, political, or technical development.
(uncountable) Human society, particularly civil society.
“The gunner made a safe landing, but it took him nearly a week to find his way back to civilization and to get back to base.”
“The highly cultivated state of their language would argue a degree of thoughtfulness and depth consistent only with an advanced state of civilization.”
“The ancient Mayan civilization was very advanced and had a sophisticated knowledge of science, art, and astronomy.”
“The Mexican middle class, during its spurt of civicism, tried to ensure the election's credibility and was foiled.”
“This will allow young people to watch the CAN matches and will also reap advantage of the event to spread messages of the fight against Ebola virus and civicism.”
civilizability
The quality or degree of being able to become civilized.