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vicarious
Experienced or gained by the loss or to the consequence of another person, rather than through first-hand experience, such as through watching or reading.
“As well, tens of thousands of Australians personally involved with this national tragedy are experiencing vicarious trauma, and are bewildered by the continuing inhumane actions of our government.”
“The action was brought against the referee, for whom the Union accepted vicarious liability.”
“Photographs were widely used at the exposition, where the public's thirst for vicarious pleasure seemed insatiable.”