| Behind the coach, the mourner, for whom the coach was intended, walking in the dust. |
| This non-selective identification causes problems because the mourner identifies with both the loved and hated aspects or functions of the lost person or thing. |
| One mourner said her journey through the stages of mourning was like being in a cocoon. |
| It borders on the absurd for the mourner to dance gleefully while his parent lies dead in a fresh grave. |
| Participation in these gatherings is simply not consonant with the depression and contrition that the mourner experiences. |
| The introject and the corresponding self-image of the mourner are in a constant and endless relationship. |
